We Are Family: Best TV Ensembles

Many of my favorite TV shows happen to have a strong ensemble cast of characters. (Not all of them; The X-Files for example is really all about Mulder and Scully, no matter how much I love Skinner, the Lone Gunmen, and others.) This aspect of these shows often makes me love them more, since I love stories about family, and about diverse groups of people who come together to become a family. With that in mind, here's my list of favorite ensemble shows. It's hard for me to even number it, because I would want to place so many of these at number one. So once again, please consider that the order doesn't necessarily mean I like one better than the others.

1. Firefly

This is usually the one that occurs to me first, I will admit. Making family out of a highly diverse group of people whom you wouldn't think would ever get along and love each other is kind of a specialty of Joss Whedon's (one of the many things I love about his writing!) - and Firefly is a prime example of this. We have Mal and Zoe, two veterans of the losing side of a war, Wash, who's an expert pilot and describes himself as “the funny one”, Kaylee, the sunny, optimistic ship's mechanic, Book, the shepherd with a mysterious past, Simon and River, siblings on the run from the Alliance, Jayne the mercenary who would say he only cares about his own wellbeing, and Inara, the elegant Companion. Somehow, all these people end up knit together as a family, although Mal would prefer to call it his crew. It makes me love them all even more when behind the scenes footage, photos, Twitter accounts, and interviews from the cast make it clear that they're friends in real life, too. Sigh. I love this show.

2. Buffy the Vampire Slayer

Another quintessential Whedon ensemble. At the beginning of the show, it's just the Core Four members of the Scooby Gang: Buffy, Willow, Xander, and Giles. By the end of the show, the family has grown and shrunk and grown again, with the Core Four still at the heart of it all. Through all the changes, it's made clear in so many ways that Buffy wouldn't be able to succeed at her calling – and wouldn't want to try – without the love and support of her friends and family. They keep her sane, grounded, and allow her to have fun. They save her life many times. They'll see her through. It's what they're always meant to do. What can't they face if they're together? What's in this place that they can't weather? There's nothing they can't face … except for bunnies. (Okay, done with the OMWF lyrics now. I guess.)

3. The West Wing

I LOVE this cast so much that I cannot even put it into words. I mean, seriously. With the exception of a character who disappears after the first season (to no one's sadness), every single cast member is amazing, even the recurring guest stars like Stockard Channing, Timothy Busfield, NiCole Robinson, Kathryn Joosten, and many others. Note: I count Josh Malina in this because, when his character isn't being written as making a hugely foolish decision, I like Will Bailey a lot. But I will admit I prefer the Sam seasons. (Because of Rob Lowe, and because of Sorkin's writing, and also because of Rob Lowe. Ahem.) This is another ensemble where it's clear that the actors enjoy each other off-screen as well, which makes me happy. For such a large group, their chemistry is nothing short of amazing. Plus, the writers generally do a good job of balancing everyone's screentime from episode to episode. Also, the family element is even made pretty explicit a few times during the show's run. The group is centered around and grounded by Martin Sheen's Bartlet. In the words of John Spencer's Leo, “He [President Bartlet] likes teams. I love him so much.” So much, indeed.

4. Sports Night

Okay, so Dan and Casey may be the central relationship of this show (and I've written about my love for it already), but it's still an ensemble. And everyone gels amazingly, once again. From Isaac, the wise, sarcastic father figure whom everyone else clearly respects and loves, to Dana, the woman who puts all of herself into her show but loves her people even more, to the idealistic young Jeremy, to the sweet Natalie, and all of the secondary characters (and great guest stars, like William H. Macy and Clark Gregg!), this is one fantastic bunch. And as with The West Wing, everyone has perfect comedic timing. That's an essential element in any Sorkin show, for sure.

5. NCIS

It may not be one of my can't-miss favorite shows (or at least not anymore), but I cannot and would not deny that NCIS has a wonderful ensemble cast. In fact, that (and the father/daughter relationships I have already mentioned) is what keeps me coming back. Mark Harmon is a highlight, of course, but it's not just him. Each member of the cast – except a certain former director whom I do not miss at all – adds a great deal to it. All of the characters care about each other and would do just about anything for each other. And once again it's clear that the cast members enjoy spending time together both on and off-screen … which is a good thing, since it's been on TV for approximately a billion years at this point.

6. Bones

Another one that's no longer as much of a favorite as it used to be for me, but I still enjoy it, largely because of the excellence of its ensemble. I remember being initially skeptical of Cam when she came on the scene, but she quickly made herself as crucial a part of the team as Booth, Brennan, Hodgins, Angela, or Zach (oh, Zach. Sigh.). Caroline is great, as well – I like seeing her whenever she shows up. Despite some really stupid plotlines in recent seasons, I still find pleasure in watching this show, mostly because of the interplay between all the characters. I hope those actors that weren't particularly well-known before their roles here will go on to other awesome things after Bones is over.

7. Babylon 5

Okay, I must add a proviso to this show's inclusion on my list, too: I'm really not a fan of Michael O'Hare's Sinclair. Sorry. I'm glad he's not around all that much after season 1. But even with some rough spots like that, this cast was fantastic. I've already posted about G'Kar and Londo, whose friendship is certainly one of the best ever to grace TV screens. But complex, interwoven relationships between the rest of the cast are also developed and explored in throughout the course of the show. All of the main characters and their stories are compelling, and I wish we'd gotten a chance to see more of them. Plus, the fact that a majority of the cast formed an honest-to-goodness band after the show was over speaks to a real friendship between them all!

8. Star Trek: The Next Generation

This show is probably the show to which I subconsciously compare all other ensemble shows. I mean, I grew up with it. I grew up with Captain Picard, Data, Geordi, Riker, Dr. Crusher, Troi, Worf, and yes, I'll even include Wesley. I loved this show before I was old enough to be able to tell what was bad acting and what was good acting, what was terrible special effects and what was awesome. When I went back and watched much of the first couple of seasons recently, I noticed things like less than stellar (heh, no pun intended) acting, and some awesomely cheesy “special” effects. But I also noticed that after a few eps, the cast really seemed to get into their roles, and their relationships quickly became at least as compelling as the show's plots. And if you're a TNG fan and you haven't seen any clips from the recent 25 year reunion of the entire main cast, you should check it out on Youtube. The real friendships between the actors are just plain awesome to watch. (It was also wonderful to get to see the friendship between Brent Spiner and Jonathan Frakes in person, at Emerald City Comicon last year. Those two guys are crazy, but in a delightful kind of way.)

9. Fringe

Honestly, I was a little bit unsure this show counted as an ensemble, since the core characters are only three in number. But there's also Astrid, and Broyles, and Nina, and the Red 'Verse team (and heck, even Gene the cow) – and together, they make a respectable sized ensemble and an extremely compelling bunch (Gene less so). I adore the interactions between them, and the depth each character has. And although I've already said it before in this list, the Fringe team really are a family. Considering the challenges and traumas various members of the group have endured and inflicted on each other in the past, it's even more amazing how close they are now. On a related note, these themes of forgiveness and redemption are another reason for me to love this show.

Honorable mentions:

-Angel: I wasn't sure whether this should be on my list, since in some ways I preferred the show when it was just Angel, Cordelia, and Doyle (much as I love Wesley, Lorne, Fred, and Gunn). But it certainly deserves an honorable mention. Like other Whedon shows, the team is made up of people who would under normal circumstances have nothing to do with one another, but through their shared goal of helping the helpless (“Our rats are low” *sniff*), they become a united front who care about each other even when that love is tested.

-Dollhouse: Part of the reason I didn't put this on my favorite list is because the central member of the ensemble is not the strongest actor of the group. But Enver Gjokaj, Dichen Lachmann, Reed Diamond, Olivia Williams, Fran Kranz, Amy Acker, Harry Lennix, Miracle Laurie, Tahmoh Penikett, and yes, Eliza Dushku do make a great ensemble. My favorite thing about this show, in fact, is the opportunity it gave many of these actors to shine – sometimes for the first time in a starring role.

-Veronica Mars: This show really is about Veronica and her dad. That said, the rest of the characters make it even more awesome. It wouldn't be the same without Wallace, Logan, Flashback Lilly and the Kane Family (which, btw, if it's not a band name already, it totally should be), and the other recurring guest stars. I should say, in fact, that the friendship between Wallace and Veronica is one of my favorite non-romantic male/female friendships on television.

So, did I leave anything off the list? What do you think?

Fathers and daughters

One way you can get me to love a show – even one that might not otherwise have a long list of other things that make it stand out – is to have a really good father-daughter relationship at its core. (I'm not saying I'd still watch a show that was actually terrible just for this relationship, but … well, I'm getting ahead of myself now.) Since I love making lists, and since a friend suggested it, here goes with another one! Hope you're not too entirely bored of my lists by now; if you are, feel free to skip it.



1. Giles & Buffy, Buffy the Vampire Slayer
This one usually occurs to me very quickly when I think of my favorites, so I'll put it first. It didn't take me long at all when I was first watching Buffy to decide that A) Buffy was awesome, B) Giles was my second favorite character, and C) Giles loved Buffy like she was his daughter, and Buffy loved Giles like he was her father. In fact, Giles is a much better father to Buffy than her mostly-absent biological dad. As the show went on, it became more and more clear: if you messed with Buffy, you brought on the wrath of Giles. If you messed with Giles, you brought on the wrath of Buffy. My love for this relationship is why it was extra-painful in that episode in season 3 (“Helpless”) when Giles goes behind Buffy's back for the sake of fulfilling one of the Watcher Council's stupid pointless rituals for the Slayer. Her betrayal and his guilt – oh, man. It was also very hard for me when Giles left the show for a while in season 6, especially after his heartfelt and emotional (and lovely!) song during “Once More With Feeling.” I remember being much relieved when my friend assured me that he wasn't gone for good! There are about a million more moments I could describe, but suffice it to say Rupert Giles is the man, and I love how much he loves his unofficially adopted daughter.

2. Jack & Sydney Bristow, Alias
This is the other one that usually occurs to me right away in this category. If I really think back to when I first started watching Alias, I can faintly recall that I didn't like Jack Bristow much at all when the audience was first introduced to him – and no wonder: he seemed to have almost no use for his bright, intelligent, and impulsive daughter Sydney. I developed a little more sympathy for him when we learned more about how he'd lost his wife and Sydney's mother in tragic circumstances, but then it also became clear that that was about the time that he started shutting young Sydney out of his life. Not surprisingly, this hurt her a great deal. As the show progressed, however, the audience started to see a great deal of evidence that, in Spy Daddy's own words (from “Salvation”, in season 2), “Despite my limited abilities as a father, I love [Sydney] more than I could ever say.” ::sniff:: Yeah, that sound you just heard? That was the sound of my heart shattering into tiny pieces. One of the ways this love was demonstrated was in his efforts, both behind the scenes and with Sydney's knowledge, of protecting his daughter as best he could even in the midst of her extremely dangerous job. Sydney didn't always appreciate these acts, but she did grow to love her dad more and more over the course of the show. Although the show itself went downhill in quality after season three, I think it did the Bristows justice in how it ended. For that, I am glad.

3. Keith & Veronica Mars, Veronica Mars
No list of awesome TV father-daughter relationships would be complete without the Mars duo. After the murder of Veronica's best friend Lily, the town of Neptune turned on its former sheriff, Keith, and his daughter, due to events surrounding the initial investigation. Keith became a private investigator, and his now ostracized high-school-age daughter followed suit. They made a formidable pair when they worked a case together, and each had their own strengths to bring to bear. When they were at odds, it was painful to watch because of how well the two stars portray it. Thankfully, they were never on the outs with each other for too long. I've already mentioned the scene from “Leave It To Beaver” when they find out for sure that Keith is Veronica's biological dad – guh. Just one of many, many sweet and awesome moments between the two of them. Whenever anything terrible happened to Veronica, she knew she could go to her dad for comfort and wisdom, even when it was at least partially her fault. I said in that aforementioned list of favorite TV eps that Keith Mars is probably my favorite TV dad, and I think I was right to say that. (Only the fact that it's been so many years since I watched VM motivates me having listed him at number three here.)

4. Gibbs & Abby, NCIS
I haven't really been invested in this show for several seasons – I think it's been running out of ideas for a while, but it's on CBS and gets huge ratings, so it will probably never die – but I still make a point to watch when I don't have other plans at airtime. The reason? The quality cast. (Ooh, there's another list idea: favorite TV ensemble casts! ::adds item to list of lists to make::) It really is an excellent ensemble, and a big part of that is Mark Harmon and Pauley Perrette as Gibbs and Abby. Gibbs' wife and daughter were murdered many years in his past. Abby lost her parents, too, I believe, although she had a happy upbringing. Anyway, as far back as I can remember on the show, the love between them is obvious, and (IMO) obviously of a father-daughter type. In fact, the whole team is like a family – another thing that I love – but Gibbs and Abby stand out. They protect each other and care for each other, and it's fun to see the normally stoic and guarded Gibbs let down his guard a little sometimes, because of his Abby. Almost nothing during an episode of NCIS is guaranteed to get an “Awww” out of me more than a sweet moment between Gibbs and Abby.

*An honorable mention should go here to Gibbs & Ziva. Ziva has her own major issues with her biological dad, but it didn't take long at all after her introduction to the show for her to develop a surrogate father-daughter relationship with Gibbs. They have had their own share of sweet moments, to be sure.

5. Richard & Alexis Castle, Castle
I'm going to be honest here: other than the initial draw of Nathan Fillion, the first half season of Castle was … far from the best thing I've seen on TV. It took a while for the characters and writers to find their footing, I think. By now it's developed into quite a decent show, with another excellent cast, all of whom I enjoy watching every week. Even before they all gelled, though, the relationship between Castle and his daughter was enough to convince me to keep watching. (And it was worth it!) Molly Quinn does a wonderful job as Castle's smart, headstrong, and well-grounded teenage daughter, who loves her dad even when he's being a huge geek, or being way overprotective. Nathan Fillion, in turn, does quite well (of course!) as a single father who, yes, is sometimes less mature than his daughter, but also usually knows when she just needs a listening ear or a few words of counsel – or a corny joke to lighten the mood. It's clear that Castle treasures his daughter and is extremely proud of her.

6. Cal & Emily Lightman, Lie to Me
The relationship between these two was a highlight to be sure, for this sadly short-lived show. It was similar to Castle and Alexis's in many ways (although Cal could be a lot more annoying than Castle usually is!). Both Emily and Alexis sometimes are smarter than their fathers, at least in interpersonal skills. Both of them have to deal with dads who can be quite overprotective, especially when interacting with their boyfriends – although let me tell you, despite not being as tall as Nathan Fillion, Tim Roth as Cal Lightman came across as a great deal more menacing when he wanted to than Castle has so far! Anyway, it was clear that whatever reckless thing Cal might do to put himself at risk for his job at the Lightman Group, he would do whatever it took to keep Emily safe and out of trouble. Emily, in turn, helped keep her father grounded and was not afraid to call him on his nonsense when necessary, too. I hope to see Hayley McFarland in other excellent roles, if she wants. Also, it makes me happy that she and Tim Roth are good friends IRL.

Other honorable mentions:

-Jed & Zoey Bartlet, The West Wing: One of the main reasons I didn't give these two their own number on the list is that I'm not done watching the series yet, so I don't know how it's going to turn out for them. I do love their relationship as shown so far, though. President Bartlet is a great dad.

-Captain & Dana Scully, The X-Files: We don't get a lot of time with Scully and her dad on the show, but from what we do see, we know she loves her dad dearly. And since he appears from beyond the grave to tell her how much he wishes he had more time with her, it's a pretty safe bet that he loved her just as much. I choose to believe that while he might have been strict as a military father, their relationship was warm and caring – which would make it the best father-child relationship on the show, probably. Heh.

-Pete & Rose Tyler, Doctor Who: I couldn't very well leave these two off the list entirely, since “Father's Day” made me cry when I first saw it and continues to make me tear up whenever I rewatch. “Who am I, love?” “My daddy.” My heart breaks all over again, every time.

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I should also mention that it always makes the joys of watching these fathers & daughters are always highlighted when I get to watch them with my actual dad. He isn't into all of these shows, but I can state with confidence, for instance, that he was not unmoved when we watched "Father's Day" for the first time.

Also, yes, I will be posting a list of favorite father-son relationships at some point soon. That's another pretty much surefire way to get me interested in a show!